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We discussed last week the Blessing of Havdalah (HERE), that we say when bidding farewell to the Shabat, and we mentioned its customs and blessings. But what is the reason for these customs?
Smelling spices or aromatic herbs: On Shabbat, each Jew receives an “additional” soul. In other words, something is added to our soul every Shabbat and helps us to connect with G-d. When the Shabbat ends, this “additional” soul leaves. To console our soul, we smell good spices, because as we know, a good scent soothes the soul.
The fire: It was the first “night after the Shabbat” of Creation and the sin of Adam and Eve. Before the sin, the Garden of Eden always had light, even during the night. After the sin and when Shabbat ended, Adam found himself in the dark for the first time (the consequences of the sin started only after Shabbat).
What did he do? G-d gave him the knowledge and he found two stones, rubbed them, and created the first fire of the world. In remembrance of this fact, we bless G-d who created the fire.
What if we do not have spices or herb with a good scent, or if we cannot find a fire to lit? It is not necessary to search for them and we can make Havdalah even without them. If we find them later, we can still say the blessing on them independently. This is because these are customs that are related to the night after Shabbat and not to the Havdalah blessing which separates Shabbat from the other days of the week.
There is also a custom to make another meal during this night after Shabbat. In the same way that when Shabbat starts, we do a meal (which starts with the Kiddush), we do something similar when it ends. We can make a simple meal, and it is acceptable even to eat only something of the size of an olive. The idea is to bid farewell to the Shabbat as we welcomed it, with a meal.
Shabbat Shalom,
Arie from the Yeshiva