2 years have passed since the tragic car accident which cost the life of 13 year old Levi z”l Hendel, my husband’s brother. Levi was spending the holiday of Chanukah in Eilat, visiting army bases of Tzahal, to bring to the soldiers the light and joy of Chanukah along with some tasty doughnuts. But, on the fourth day of Chanukah, the van carrying 9 boys on the way to an army base never reached its destination: after a curve, the driver lost control of the car and Levi was killed, along with 16 year old Moishe Golan and Yonatan Bitton z”l. The shock was immense and the pain unbearable: why did G-d choose to take away these precious souls, who were on the way to disseminate light? Why did sweet Levi, whose smile was irresistible, who chose to spend his vacation giving to others rather than relax, have to be taken from us in such a brutal way?
We question G-d, but we still have faith. We know that G-d is good, but we ask G-d to show us only revealed good, good that we mortals can recognize as good. We ask Him not to try our faith, but when we are confronted with such a tragic loss, we say, our voice choked with tears: “Baruch Dayan Haemet” “Blessed be He, the true Judge”.
And now 2 years have passed… Difficult to realize, difficult to believe… It seemed that it would be impossible to wake up again in the morning, to smile, to look at the sun, to eat, to sleep… One part of us just wanted to mourn forever, while the other knew that the best way to pay tribute to Levi was to continue our life and to cherish his memory… We had to learn that we could laugh again even though we never forget the hole in our heart… We had to learn to go on with the everyday work, with the children, the activities even though we just wanted to sit down and cry…
And now, 2 years have passed, and Oh Levi, how we miss you …
Even though he was young in age, Levi was very responsible and loved to take care of his nieces and nephews. He was always ready to organize a game, tell a story and the children absolutely adored him. In summer 2006, during the second Lebanon war, my children were staying by their grandparents in Northern Israel, in the area where missiles were falling and all the citizens had to stay in shelters. The shelter in their house (cheder bitachon) was also Levi’s room. During the alerts, he put mattresses for the kids on the floor, played games and gave treats to entertain them and calm them down during the alerts. They even slept in his room during this week, so they would not need to be woken up if there was an alert during the night.
Levi was creative, liked to play music and to write: he produced a musical tape with one of his friend and wrote a few short stories. Most of all, he enjoyed reading. He already had his personal library and used this Bar Mitzvah money to buy more books. This is why we created here in Athens a multimedia library in his memory.
All the stories will still not be able to describe and capture his wonderful smile, which spread from ear to ear and illuminated his whole face. It will not do justice to his cheerful presence, to the pleasant way he engaged with everyone. His friends said that whenever they were visiting an army base, they would send him to the most harsh and grumpy soldiers, because no one could resist Levi’s smile.
Levi had spent the last holiday of Sukkot in our home in Athens. He helped with whatever was needed, never lazy or complaining. He helped build the Sukka on the roof, accompanied Mendel on diverse visits, and helped him also at the event in the old age home. He liked to bake, and prepared by himself small bread rolls, of which he was very proud. He played with the children, did arts and crafts with them, and taught them about the holiday. Once he was reading, and Mendel asked him what he was doing: right away, he put his book on a side and jumped with a grin: “what would you like me to be doing?”
That was Levi, always smiling, always eager to help….
Levi, we will never forget you, and we will continue in your smiling way to bring more light and goodness to the world, until darkness vanishes completely and we enter the Era of Peace and Redemption.
Pictures from the day before the accident: Levi lighting candles, bringing doughnuts to the soldiers, and putting on Tefilin with them.