We spent the last Shabbat with a group of 38 professors from Israel on an academic trip to Greece, studying Greek Jewry: they visited Thessaloniki, Veria, Volos, Larissa, Athens, (but not only), met with local professors, and combined tourism with study.
It was very nice to meet all of them, to listen to inspiring words of Torah, to hear Zmirot (traditional Shabbat songs) sung to Greek tunes J.
My son Arie, 7, who is not exactly shy, delivered a short speech at Shabbat lunch, about the Torah portion of the week, Mishpatim, to the amused delight of everyone: He explained the difference between Mishpatim, which are commandments we can understand with our logic (such as not to kill, not to steal) and Chukim, commandments which are supra rational (such as the Red Heifer). The challenge is to fulfill the Chukim with the same joy as the Mishpatim: Arie’s advice (quoting the Sages J) was to remember how each Mitzvah, no matter if we understand its reason, is an occasion to fulfill G-d’s will and to connect to Him. This should help us be joyful even as we fulfill the supra-rational “Chukim”.
I like to think of it as the relationship of a couple: we try to please our spouse even if we don’t exactly understand why s/he likes this or that. For example, a husband will buy a bouquet for his wife if she enjoys it, even if he cannot understand why cut flowers that will get spoiled after a few days make her happy. He will do it just to show his love and dedication to her. In the same way, whenever we fulfill G-d’s commandments, including the seemingly illogic ones, we can think of it as an opportunity to show our unconditional love and dedication to Him.
I left the best part for the end: When Mendel asked Arie about the Mitzvah of “Kibbud Av Vaem”, respecting your parents, he thought it belongs in the category of Chukim, supra-rational commandments!!! Of course, do you think it is logical to listen to your parents telling you to brush your teeth, do your homework and share your toys with your sister?!!!! J