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The GPS recalculates

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This has probably happened to you. As you are driving following the instructions of the GPS, you take a wrong turn. The GPS then says: "Recalculating". It shows you how to get back on track and advance towards your destination.

The day of Pesach Sheni, the Second Passover (this year 08/05/20), gives us a similar message: It is never too late. No matter how many wrong turns we have taken in our life, we can always get back on track, fix our actions, amend our relationships, connect to G-d.

Pesach Sheni started in a very interesting way. Unlike other holidays, which were unilaterally commanded by G‑d, this holiday was initiated by the request of individuals.

On the first anniversary of the Exodus, Moses was approached by a small group of Jews who were ritually impure and thus excluded from offering, or partaking of, the Paschal lamb. “Why should we be deprived?” they said. “We, too, want to experience the spiritual freedom gained by participating in the Paschal service!”

In response, G d instructed that from that year and onwards, all those who weren’t capable of offering the Paschal Lamb in its proper time on the fourteenth of Nissan, due to impurity or distance from the Temple, should offer the Paschal lamb exactly one month later, on the fourteenth of Iyar.

The Previous Rebbe, Rabbi Yosef Yitschak Schneerson explained that “Pesach Sheni teaches us that ‘Nothing is ever lost: it’s never too late!’ Even someone who is impure, even someone who is far away, can still correct himself.” Every individual, no matter what his situation, always has the potential to “recalculate”, and get back on track.

Nowadays, we mark and commemorate Pesach Sheni by eating matzah (in the same way that we eat the afikoman-matzah at the Passover seder in remembrance of the Passover offering).

Let’s celebrate the second chances in life.

The 5 Stages of Grief about the Corona Pesach

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Many of you are familiar with the Five Stages of Grief as theorized by Kübler-Ross: denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance. People experiencing grief typically go through these five stages, and I thought that they can be applied to the current coronavirus situation and Pesach.

Our first reaction may be Denial: “No way, this is not possibly happening! It’s impossible to even think about a Seder without my family”.

Then comes the Anger: “Why does this happen to me? Why do I need to stay locked in my house? How can I not do Seder with my family?”

This can be followed by Depression: “This is awful. The Seder is going to be sad… I should maybe not bother to make a Seder this year…”

Some may try to Bargain: “Maybe we can flex the rules a bit. Maybe we can still get together and take precautions…” (If you are thinking about it, please reconsider. The most important value in Judaism is life, and we need to protect it at all costs).

The final stage is Acceptance and moving on, and some may get to it sooner, others later, and some may get directly there without going through all the stages. We can tell ourselves: “This is the current situation for all of us and there is a reason that this is happening, even if I don’t understand it. Let me find creative ways to celebrate a proper and meaningful Pesach even with the present limitations. Let me join the millions of Jews who will celebrate this year a Seder different from previous years."

We wish you Pesach Kasher Vesameach,

Rabbi Mendel and Nehama Hendel 

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